When a
woman, any woman, opens herself showing some hidden part under the surface, it
might be the muse, the heart, the wild wolf, the witch, the fairy, the river
flowing under the skin; when a woman does so, it is because she feels safe and
she trusts the person opposite her. When
she does so, it is not always because she is seeking something or because she
is trying to cast a spell on the man watching her unveiling. She does so, because she wants to give the
best of herself, because she needs to let it flow, because she needs to be
free. Because she thinks whatever she is
giving might do good to the other. And
after that unveiling she remains kind of naked from inside, no matter how much
clothes she is wearing. Therefore,
whatever the man does, will affect her enormously, because she is naked, she is
wearing no disguise, no shields, no iron walls.
If the man
walks away, destroys bridges, draws a
vast desert of silence, sends his guardians and predators, ignores her, laughs
at her and he pretends nothing ever happened; he behaves like all those families, all those communities
who set fire to the witches, all those loving parents who punish their girls
because they are not normal. Instead,
you should be able to face her, give her a coat if you cannot give her a hug,
sit by her side in silence if you cannot say a word, look into her eyes showing
her that you appreciate what you were given and that you truly respect her.
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